Pick one option per category — the cross-section and total dead load update as you go.
Dead load is the permanent weight of the structure itself — calculated from material densities and dimensions, not looked up in a table.
Dead load is the one load you can actually compute with confidence. Weigh the concrete slab (150 pcf × thickness), the steel beams (look up weight per foot in the manual), the MEP systems (~10-15 psf allowance), the ceiling and flooring (~5-10 psf). Add them up. Unlike live load or wind, dead load doesn't change with occupancy or weather — it's there from the day the building opens until the day it comes down.
Dead load drives design more than most people realize. It's the largest single load on most buildings. It provides the stabilizing force against overturning and uplift (which is why the 0.9D load combination exists — less dead load is worse when you're checking for wind uplift). And it feeds back on itself: a heavier beam means more dead load, which means you might need an even heavier beam. Getting the dead load right is the foundation of everything else.